what should i do about this girl im seeing???

ive been seeing this girl (well she lives 10hrs away in Virginia) that i went to high school with for about 6 months now. she used to call me everyday up until about 2 weeks ago. i think no biggie because shes has 2 children and one of em was sick and in the hospital. well the last time i talked to her was on the phone like i said. everything seemed fine as usual. anyways, i go to write her an email last night and her email gets sent back to me because she apparently got rid of here account (it was a yahoo email addy). so now im thinking WTF??? well she lives right beside her mom and im thinking about calling her mom up and see whats going on. i cant call my girlfriend for a reason. should i call her mom up or what? my room mate thinks i should wait to see if my girlfriend is gonna call me. help me out y'all!!

she has a myspace or facebook? see when was the last time she logged in so have you spoken to her in those 2 weeks? she might have blew you off and why cant you call her?

she has neither. i dont wanna say because people will think its wrong...

I think you should wait it out..just my .02

Idk man, i wish ya the best of luck but sounds kinda shady to me. If she was regular in calling and emailing and now she hasnt for a few weeks!! NO ONE is that busy, to send an email or call! Id say f#&% her. Thats just my nickle.

BaggedSplash wrote:she has neither. i dont wanna say because people will think its wrong...

this place is full of assholes you can tell us. so she is pissed at you? or is she still married? if so f@#% it i wouldnt lose sleep over her. you might as well move on in spanish there is a saying "amor the lejos es amor de pendejos" which translates to long distance love is for dumb asses. hate to break it to you but come on your 10 hrs away you dont think that she is gonna stray if you dont see her that often?

Right on bro! High five

spider97 wrote:you might as well move on in spanish there is a saying "amor the lejos es amor de pendejos" which translates to long distance love is for dumb asses. hate to break it to you but come on your 10 hrs away you dont think that she is gonna stray if you dont see her that often?

Spanish saying noted.

and he does have a point about being 10 hrs away.

haha i know im thinking about putting that as my quote on the space

Wait it out Brian, there may be a good reason for the lack of contact..but dont wait to long before asking around...be subtle tho, she MAY be blowing you off the nicest way she knows how...

H8heights wrote:haha i know im thinking about putting that as my quote on the space

just looking out for the brother

yeah shes still married. the guy is fuckin d*%^ to her. i met him once and didnt like him as well as he doesnt like me. he doesnt like his wife to have male friends or any friends for that matter. i try to see her when i go down to my dad's but the last few times, ive been busy with other stuff (funeral, christmas time...etc) and hadnt been able to see her. i dunno, ive been thinking about breaking it off with her anyways. shes got way too much shit going on in her life that she needs to straighten out. advice taken y'all. ima wait it out i guess and see if she calls. oh, i do have an alternate email addy of hers. reckon i should try that one and see what happens?

lol well theres another piece to the story! I bet the dudes controlling and watching her so thats why you cant get ahold of her!

yeah hes controlling as hell over her. he doesnt do shit to help out around the house or help their kids with anything (homework, playing outside with them...etc.) all he does is go to work and play xbox all night long and makes her do everything around the house as well as take care of the kids. im sure hes watching her...i wouldnt put it past him.

he might have seen her emails or something and she decided to get rid of her email. honestly sounds like more of a headache then anything else. im assuming you care for this girl since you are asking for advise. but you will never have a normal healthy relationship with her. even if she does get divorced she has two children with the dude he is always going to be in the picture. if she calls you cool but i wouldnt sweat it to much pussy in the world to be thinking of the one your not getting